Waste Not, Want Not!

vege57 wrote:The X and I had a tense moment earlier today , She has an account that she /we have been paying into for years just a trickle, it has around 33k in it and she got it into her head that she was going to take it with her, we had previously discussed this, she was taking all the stuff from the house . But the house she has purchased wont fit it , and i will take it with me, so now she is getting shy on the deal, I told her in no uncertain terms that if she was getting cold feet I would stop her from taking her deposit from the joint account and her prop deal would fall over, as she was getting an interest free loan of 100k for a month and a half, , I settled with her taking 20K and I'll take 10, , we will have it drawn up in the final agreement, with what im taking from the prop it is a good deal for me , I'll get my 10k October next year when the contract matures

It aint over till the fat lady sings, she's in a tight spot and cant afford to argue and im not taking any prisoners

Red Lily wrote:

vege57 wrote:The X and I had a tense moment earlier today , She has an account that she /we have been paying into for years just a trickle, it has around 33k in it and she got it into her head that she was going to take it with her, we had previously discussed this, she was taking all the stuff from the house . But the house she has purchased wont fit it , and i will take it with me, so now she is getting shy on the deal, I told her in no uncertain terms that if she was getting cold feet I would stop her from taking her deposit from the joint account and her prop deal would fall over, as she was getting an interest free loan of 100k for a month and a half, , I settled with her taking 20K and I'll take 10, , we will have it drawn up in the final agreement, with what im taking from the prop it is a good deal for me , I'll get my 10k October next year when the contract matures

It aint over till the fat lady sings, she's in a tight spot and cant afford to argue and im not taking any prisoners

I hate to break it to you but if you're "not taking any prisoners" you shoulda split it 50/50.  $15k each.

vege57 wrote:

Red Lily wrote:

vege57 wrote:The X and I had a tense moment earlier today , She has an account that she /we have been paying into for years just a trickle, it has around 33k in it and she got it into her head that she was going to take it with her, we had previously discussed this, she was taking all the stuff from the house . But the house she has purchased wont fit it , and i will take it with me, so now she is getting shy on the deal, I told her in no uncertain terms that if she was getting cold feet I would stop her from taking her deposit from the joint account and her prop deal would fall over, as she was getting an interest free loan of 100k for a month and a half, , I settled with her taking 20K and I'll take 10, , we will have it drawn up in the final agreement, with what im taking from the prop it is a good deal for me , I'll get my 10k October next year when the contract matures

It aint over till the fat lady sings, she's in a tight spot and cant afford to argue and im not taking any prisoners

I hate to break it to you but if you're "not taking any prisoners" you shoulda split it 50/50.  $15k each.

lol, You do have a point, But I am stripping the place of almost everything that has any value and popping it into a 20 container and taking it with me

I'm giving her 5k , its a good deal for me

Red Lily wrote:

vege57 wrote:

Red Lily wrote:

vege57 wrote:The X and I had a tense moment earlier today , She has an account that she /we have been paying into for years just a trickle, it has around 33k in it and she got it into her head that she was going to take it with her, we had previously discussed this, she was taking all the stuff from the house . But the house she has purchased wont fit it , and i will take it with me, so now she is getting shy on the deal, I told her in no uncertain terms that if she was getting cold feet I would stop her from taking her deposit from the joint account and her prop deal would fall over, as she was getting an interest free loan of 100k for a month and a half, , I settled with her taking 20K and I'll take 10, , we will have it drawn up in the final agreement, with what im taking from the prop it is a good deal for me , I'll get my 10k October next year when the contract matures

It aint over till the fat lady sings, she's in a tight spot and cant afford to argue and im not taking any prisoners

I hate to break it to you but if you're "not taking any prisoners" you shoulda split it 50/50.  $15k each.

lol, You do have a point, But I am stripping the place of almost everything that has any value and popping it into a 20 container and taking it with me

I'm giving her 5k , its a good deal for me

Okay, just don't let her take advantage of you.